Tomorrow is “date lunch” day. My husband and I have been very fortunate to have worked next door to one another for the past few months, traveling to and from work and having lunch together most days. Wednesdays we have always reserved to be our date lunch. We might sit under the trees next to Lamport . . . → Read More: Reconciling my internal calendar
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There is something I’m torn about. Something that many people in or books on open relationships will say is actually a good thing. Something I often preach to people as a good thing, but can occasionally find hard to live with myself. What is this thing? It’s the fact that being with other people, when polyamorous, can . . . → Read More: Getting What We Need If only all hook-ups could be this way … This past turkey weekend, I had the delightfully unexpected opportunity to hook up with a girlfriend of mine. Someone I’d been hoping to just kiss for a while, but the planets aligned to allow for a LOT more fun than I was expecting. It was definitely not something . . . → Read More: An addendum to Sexy Friend Time This one’s pretty easy. An open relationship can, depending upon each couple’s specific arrangements, allow you to get to know your friends in ways you’ve never thought possible. Or perhaps you’ve just not vocalized yet. Go on, admit it. You know, or have known in the past, a friend that you’ve felt something more for. . . . → Read More: What Can Make Open Relationships Great? Pt. 2 – Sexy Friend Time … a nice smelling human. I was just reflecting on some people I’ve “dated” in the past couple of years. A couple in particular that I shake my head and wonder “What were you thinking!?” And then I realized it was their damn cologne that seduced me into ignoring their other obvious flaws. Curse you, bloodhound nose, for . . . → Read More: I am a sucker for … I know I wasn’t designed to be monogamous when I start feeling like this. I’m antsy. I’m craving new. Undiscovered. Uncharted. A new destination in dating territory. Not that I’m not happy with what I’ve got. Steph and I are fine, as usual. There’s normal marital shiz going down, but nothing *wrong* with us. I went through . . . → Read More: Give me a map, a blindfold, and a pin. I just found out, by way of my blog stats, that many of you are finding me from listening to CBC radio today. I am honored to have been mentioned, and I welcome you to the conversation! What amazing motivation to finish the book! Any advice on publishing … totally welcome. You can reach me at . . . → Read More: Welcome to the CBC listeners! I’ve always had this bad, bad habit [some of which might have something to do with *this* fuck-up]. When something has gone wrong, or not as planned with someone I’m dating, male or female, if it’s not been my decision, I immediately assume there’s something wrong with me. I will tell myself that they’re just busy. Or, . . . → Read More: Realizations – It's not ALWAYS about us emus An important thing to realize about an open relationship is that while it can definitely bring a new sense of intimacy, and often a new frequency to your lovemaking, it does not mean you aren’t vulnerable to the occasional rut in your sex life. Whatever it is that affects you and causes that rut, can still affect . . . → Read More: Realizations – Ruts can grab everyone I’ve realized that while sharing the occasional personal story in my mix of insights and observations about, not only, my open relationship, but the world of polyamoury, that I have yet to really tell my story from start to finish. How I came to be where I am. What I’ve learned along the way. Sure you’ve gotten . . . → Read More: My background – Validation |
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