Comments on: Forgive me, for I have sinned http://notyourmothersplayground.com/2008/11/forgive-me-for-i-have-sinned/ non-monogamy + love + sex + whatever Sun, 13 May 2012 05:23:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Zerozen Ones http://notyourmothersplayground.com/2008/11/forgive-me-for-i-have-sinned/#comment-516 Zerozen Ones Sun, 11 Jan 2009 05:43:20 +0000 http://notyourmothersplayground.wordpress.com/?p=199#comment-516 MAYBE this makes me a bad person...but I am kind of the opinion that how other people chose to handle their relationship is their own business. Using your situation as an example, HE has a "contract" with his wife, you don't. You do not wish her arm, but you don't owe this person anything. The decision to cheat was Harvey's to make and it is Harvey's to bear it strangely really has very little to do with you... It can seem cold, and maybe it is, but that's how I see it anyway, a point of view that I came to years ago after being "cheated" on and later examining the rationality of the blind hatred I felt for the other guy... MAYBE this makes me a bad person…but I am kind of the opinion that how other people chose to handle their relationship is their own business. Using your situation as an example, HE has a “contract” with his wife, you don’t. You do not wish her arm, but you don’t owe this person anything. The decision to cheat was Harvey’s to make and it is Harvey’s to bear it strangely really has very little to do with you…

It can seem cold, and maybe it is, but that’s how I see it anyway, a point of view that I came to years ago after being “cheated” on and later examining the rationality of the blind hatred I felt for the other guy…

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