Comments on: Comper … what? http://notyourmothersplayground.com/2009/04/comper-what/ non-monogamy + love + sex + whatever Fri, 10 Feb 2012 19:52:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Comper … what? http://notyourmothersplayground.com/2009/04/comper-what/#comment-619 Comper … what? Thu, 21 May 2009 01:51:09 +0000 http://notyourmothersplayground.com/?p=510#comment-619 [...] Comper … what? This post was written by admin on May 20, 2009 Posted Under: Uncategorized Comper … what? [...] [...] Comper … what? This post was written by admin on May 20, 2009 Posted Under: Uncategorized Comper … what? [...]

]]> By: tara http://notyourmothersplayground.com/2009/04/comper-what/#comment-618 tara Fri, 17 Apr 2009 05:41:45 +0000 http://notyourmothersplayground.com/?p=510#comment-618 Way to compersion Sam! I agree that it needs to be part of an open relationship, but such a struggle. A good first step, for those who can't imagine this, is to think about wanting the best for your partner, that it's not about you, and it's just them, doing what they need to do to live a full life! Compersion, may it be everyone's favourite new relationship word (good for those in mon' relationships too!). Way to compersion Sam! I agree that it needs to be part of an open relationship, but such a struggle. A good first step, for those who can’t imagine this, is to think about wanting the best for your partner, that it’s not about you, and it’s just them, doing what they need to do to live a full life! Compersion, may it be everyone’s favourite new relationship word (good for those in mon’ relationships too!).

]]> By: BonnieBelle http://notyourmothersplayground.com/2009/04/comper-what/#comment-617 BonnieBelle Fri, 17 Apr 2009 04:03:49 +0000 http://notyourmothersplayground.com/?p=510#comment-617 I love compersion. lol The thought of my husband being with someone else honestly does not bother me, and I found the idea of him being with another woman in bed very sexy. It's actually very similar to what you described with your threesome experience. He has gotten to the point where my being with women doesn't phase him, and he's happy if I'm happy, but he still isn't comfortable with me seeing another guy. I'm hoping to work on that with him. It almost makes me wish he were bi, like I am, so that we'd have a similar perspective. lol I'm glad I found your blog. :) I wrote you on okCupid, too, hope you don't mind. I love compersion. lol The thought of my husband being with someone else honestly does not bother me, and I found the idea of him being with another woman in bed very sexy. It’s actually very similar to what you described with your threesome experience.

He has gotten to the point where my being with women doesn’t phase him, and he’s happy if I’m happy, but he still isn’t comfortable with me seeing another guy. I’m hoping to work on that with him. It almost makes me wish he were bi, like I am, so that we’d have a similar perspective. lol

I’m glad I found your blog. :) I wrote you on okCupid, too, hope you don’t mind.

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