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And like that? It's gone.

For the past two weeks or so (since my staycation ended) I have had little or no sex drive. This is, to put it lightly annoying me guh-reatly! I don’t know if it’s because I screwed up my pills or what, but faaaaack I just don’t feel like myself. (By that I mean, feeling like myself is when I’m thinking about sex all the damn time, grabbing as many orgasms as I can and throwing myself shamelessly at as many people as possible. Ok, that last part is an exaggeration, it just sounded fun …)

Maybe there hasn’t been enough flirting in my life lately. Flirting always keeps my sex drive high. I’m very influenced by the mental aspects of sex more so than the physical, so without mental stimulation my body tends to lose interest. Unless I’m really, really tired. When I’m physically tired I’m often ridiculously turned on – and malleable. Lately I’ve just been more awake, less turned on. Perhaps all this exercise I’m partaking in lately is giving me too much energy!

Whatever it is, it’s frustrating. I’ve tried time alone and while it’s been fun, it hasn’t really been as fulfilling as usual. I’m just really not interested.

So there you have it. Even me, someone who’s been called ‘sex crazed’ can step into a personal drought every now and then. I really really hope this drought gets wet fucking soon!

8 comments to And like that? It's gone.

  • SAM

    Hi….
    U can cht with me for oral sex..I cn bet u , i jv potential to orgasm you a lot many times…..get in touch with me….mail me at murad_mech@yahoo.com….
    ctch u soon…
    Fuck u….
    Bye…..

  • psychediver

    I love to flirt! I do it mostly online and sometimes IRL with people I know will take it as it’s meant. I offer my humble horny services to you, pretty one. :)

  • Andrea

    ^^^^^^^ HUH? “I jv potential to orgasm..”

    POTENTIAL to orgasm?

  • samantha

    Yep. I had to keep that comment up there. Email him if you like! He’s got potential.

  • Hal

    See, it’s out of physics. “Potential orgasm” vs “Kinetic orgasm.”

  • Hal

    I mean, here’s the beginning of the “Overview” of the Wikipedia article on “Potential energy” (edited mildly):

    “Potential orgasm is sexual energy that is stored within a system. It exists when there is a force that tends to pull an object back towards some original position when the object is displaced. This force is often called a restoring force. For example, when a spring is stretched to the left, it exerts a force to the right so as to return to its original, unstretched position.”

    Come *on*. He’s brilliant.

  • alexxipharmakon

    I’ve been in this same place for weeks. It’s incredibly frustrating. I wish I had some magic potion to fix it.

  • biggerlove

    Even as a horny guy this happen. For me I’ve discovered that as I’ve gotten older sex has become much more a mental response and much less a physical one. These days I need a reason to have sex rather than just a place. And because of that I’ve found that real life greatly affects my sex life/drive where even just five years ago they didn’t. Here’s to hoping it all comes back soon.

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