http://notyourmothersplayground.com/2009/06/ooh-a-piece-of-candy/ non-monogamy + love + sex + whatever Fri, 10 Feb 2012 19:52:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 http://notyourmothersplayground.com/2009/06/ooh-a-piece-of-candy/#comment-628 Lucius Scribbens Tue, 09 Jun 2009 03:31:05 +0000 http://notyourmothersplayground.com/?p=535#comment-628 We've found that while many find Mrs. being able to fuck others is novel, it's very hard for them to wrap their brains around, especially potential male playmates for her. Most would rather not meet or know me. That's just too odd for them. It's not the natural order of things. I should't be okay with it, and she should be cheating. To them that is okay. Having permission is not a turn-on for them. In fact, I think they get-off on the "cheating wife" fantasy, where I'm not cutting it for her so she calls in the "stunt cock": him. Maybe it's a result of the portrayal of wives in porn as being sex-starved, or maybe it's alpha-male gorilla competitive nature in them. Regardless, it seems more women than men find it novel, and more men than women find of odd or not right on my part. We’ve found that while many find Mrs. being able to fuck others is novel, it’s very hard for them to wrap their brains around, especially potential male playmates for her. Most would rather not meet or know me. That’s just too odd for them. It’s not the natural order of things. I should’t be okay with it, and she should be cheating. To them that is okay. Having permission is not a turn-on for them. In fact, I think they get-off on the “cheating wife” fantasy, where I’m not cutting it for her so she calls in the “stunt cock”: him. Maybe it’s a result of the portrayal of wives in porn as being sex-starved, or maybe it’s alpha-male gorilla competitive nature in them. Regardless, it seems more women than men find it novel, and more men than women find of odd or not right on my part.

]]> http://notyourmothersplayground.com/2009/06/ooh-a-piece-of-candy/#comment-627 PolyWolf Thu, 04 Jun 2009 14:58:58 +0000 http://notyourmothersplayground.com/?p=535#comment-627 Of course people think it is novel... loving and fucking other people with your spouses blessings. They would not think it so novel if you were cheating. Of course people think it is novel… loving and fucking other people with your spouses blessings.
They would not think it so novel if you were cheating.

]]> http://notyourmothersplayground.com/2009/06/ooh-a-piece-of-candy/#comment-626 psychediver Thu, 04 Jun 2009 14:12:35 +0000 http://notyourmothersplayground.com/?p=535#comment-626 Since A and I are so new to it still (and in a little need of guidance) there's still a novelty to it. We're being sure not to do this for any reasons other than good ones though. Since A and I are so new to it still (and in a little need of guidance) there’s still a novelty to it. We’re being sure not to do this for any reasons other than good ones though.

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