Comments on: Over-promise, Under-deliver http://notyourmothersplayground.com/2009/10/over-promise-under-deliver/ non-monogamy + love + sex + whatever Mon, 21 May 2012 18:11:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: piecesofjade http://notyourmothersplayground.com/2009/10/over-promise-under-deliver/#comment-708 piecesofjade Fri, 30 Oct 2009 17:39:03 +0000 http://notyourmothersplayground.com/?p=694#comment-708 Wow, just found your blog via a #FF on Twitter. GREAT stuff here. I know exactly where you are coming from, have echoed those very feelings at times. You speak to them them so eloquently & concisely. Truly, a pleasure to read. Re: the above commenter: The idea that just because you have an issue regarding a specific thing during your mate's date = you not being happy being in an open marriage is such bunk. (sigh) If someone has an issue with something their monogamous partner does, would that then mean that they aren't happy being married at all? Of course not. Relationships take work, sometimes we get unhappy at a partner's actions, sometimes we say ugly things or argue. Whether that is in a mono OR a poly relationship. Jade PS-this logs me in under my piecesofjade (sex/kink) blog, but you can link from there to A Poly Life, my poly blog. Wow, just found your blog via a #FF on Twitter. GREAT stuff here. I know exactly where you are coming from, have echoed those very feelings at times. You speak to them them so eloquently & concisely. Truly, a pleasure to read.

Re: the above commenter: The idea that just because you have an issue regarding a specific thing during your mate’s date = you not being happy being in an open marriage is such bunk. (sigh) If someone has an issue with something their monogamous partner does, would that then mean that they aren’t happy being married at all? Of course not. Relationships take work, sometimes we get unhappy at a partner’s actions, sometimes we say ugly things or argue. Whether that is in a mono OR a poly relationship.

Jade
PS-this logs me in under my piecesofjade (sex/kink) blog, but you can link from there to A Poly Life, my poly blog.

]]> By: Shannia http://notyourmothersplayground.com/2009/10/over-promise-under-deliver/#comment-707 Shannia Fri, 23 Oct 2009 16:55:34 +0000 http://notyourmothersplayground.com/?p=694#comment-707 How about you also write what you replied after and my final answer? I did tell you that I sincerely wished you luck and hapiness didn't I? Clearly you're searching yourself, you got lost somewhere and forgot to respect yourself. How will others ever respect you? I do hope you find guidance, I am not talking religion, I am not that religious, but guidance to put some sense and order in your life. Best of luck. How about you also write what you replied after and my final answer?
I did tell you that I sincerely wished you luck and hapiness didn’t I?
Clearly you’re searching yourself, you got lost somewhere and forgot to respect yourself.
How will others ever respect you?
I do hope you find guidance, I am not talking religion, I am not that religious, but guidance to put some sense and order in your life.
Best of luck.

]]> By: samantha http://notyourmothersplayground.com/2009/10/over-promise-under-deliver/#comment-706 samantha Tue, 20 Oct 2009 21:44:18 +0000 http://notyourmothersplayground.com/?p=694#comment-706 Ooh extra fun! This is what she replied to me when I emailed her! "honey maybe you need to find God, I don't know, or get therapy. good luck to you though,,, really." Ooh extra fun! This is what she replied to me when I emailed her!

“honey
maybe you need to find God, I don’t know, or get therapy.
good luck to you though,,, really.”

]]> By: samantha http://notyourmothersplayground.com/2009/10/over-promise-under-deliver/#comment-705 samantha Tue, 20 Oct 2009 21:43:07 +0000 http://notyourmothersplayground.com/?p=694#comment-705 I love you R :) I love you R :)

]]> By: R http://notyourmothersplayground.com/2009/10/over-promise-under-deliver/#comment-704 R Tue, 20 Oct 2009 20:40:38 +0000 http://notyourmothersplayground.com/?p=694#comment-704 Plus, @Shannia, in a manner that I wish I never knew *stares pointedly at S*, this whole thing was her idea. Perhaps we don't throw stones, hmm? Plus, @Shannia, in a manner that I wish I never knew *stares pointedly at S*, this whole thing was her idea. Perhaps we don’t throw stones, hmm?

]]> By: samantha http://notyourmothersplayground.com/2009/10/over-promise-under-deliver/#comment-703 samantha Tue, 20 Oct 2009 20:20:33 +0000 http://notyourmothersplayground.com/?p=694#comment-703 So I don't want an open relationship, yet I'm writing a book about it, have a blog that I share with the world, talk to my husband about how happy we are and how great life is since being open and it was my idea in the first place? Well golly thanks for clearing that up for me. Good to know I was on the wrong path in my life and you were there to fix it. So I don’t want an open relationship, yet I’m writing a book about it, have a blog that I share with the world, talk to my husband about how happy we are and how great life is since being open and it was my idea in the first place?

Well golly thanks for clearing that up for me. Good to know I was on the wrong path in my life and you were there to fix it.

]]> By: Shannia http://notyourmothersplayground.com/2009/10/over-promise-under-deliver/#comment-702 Shannia Tue, 20 Oct 2009 20:03:40 +0000 http://notyourmothersplayground.com/?p=694#comment-702 OMG you're soooo full of bs it's scary. you're jealous, you DONT want an open relationship and feel it's the only way to keep him. Wow, i am never rude on blogs but seriously. this is the worst bs i've read in... forever! OMG you’re soooo full of bs it’s scary. you’re jealous, you DONT want an open relationship and feel it’s the only way to keep him.
Wow, i am never rude on blogs but seriously. this is the worst bs i’ve read in… forever!

]]> By: anna http://notyourmothersplayground.com/2009/10/over-promise-under-deliver/#comment-701 anna Wed, 14 Oct 2009 18:23:51 +0000 http://notyourmothersplayground.com/?p=694#comment-701 i'm so bad about this, actually. thanks for the reminder. it really is better to just call. i’m so bad about this, actually. thanks for the reminder. it really is better to just call.

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