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I am not an expert.

Recently I’ve gotten a lot of varied feedback about my online presence. Sharing a lot of your life with the web leaves you open to input, good and bad, something I knew when starting this site at a friends’ suggestion:

Hey! You should start a blog!

Yes. It was that simple and un-thought out.

I don’t think that I . . . → Read More: I am not an expert.

Realization: My own practical demons

Since writing the post ‘Realizations: I Just Wanna’ Have Fun’ I’ve realized something. Where Steph has often cited cost and practicality for reasons that we don’t try new things, events, places, etc. … I’ve always – in my own mind – cited the need for sleep as a reason not to fuck.

And as much as I . . . → Read More: Realization: My own practical demons

Stuck in Christmas purgatory

On Sunday we made plans to go to the Santa Claus Parade with friends for something to do. Now normally I’m anti parade. I hate that it happens so early – November 15th? – but it makes sense as it’s cold in December and it’s a kick off to the gift buying season. (Another thing I . . . → Read More: Stuck in Christmas purgatory

I'm all for spontaneity …

… but sometimes I think it’s a good idea to schedule things in your life that you wouldn’t normally. Like fights and sex.

After an exhausting, emotional yesterday there was no way I was opening my legs. I wasn’t interested but I knew I would be Saturday morning. There’s something about lazing around on a Saturday in . . . → Read More: I'm all for spontaneity …

Realizations – I just wanna' have fun

I have a personal rule that I try to follow as much as possible. I don’t like to blog when I’m angry or emotional. I know I’ve done it in the past, but I highly prefer not because then I hit you folks with emotional diarrhea and I embarrass myself on the off chance that I . . . → Read More: Realizations – I just wanna' have fun

Working on a change

I’m working on changing this site a teensy bit. While during my first 3 years of non-monogamy I was discovering and learning new lessons very often, that phase has slowed down a bit and now we are just living our lives.

So in order to be able to share thoughts on things that aren’t always related to . . . → Read More: Working on a change

Where in the world?

I’ve definitely been MIA lately and wanted to lend some explanations for that. First of all, work was crazy for the past month or two leading up to our big conference (that went well, thank you very much – despite quite a few fires we had to put out.)

This is what I turn into when . . . → Read More: Where in the world?