Comments on: Realization: My own practical demons http://notyourmothersplayground.com/2009/11/realization-my-own-practical-demons/ non-monogamy + love + sex + whatever Fri, 10 Feb 2012 19:52:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Lucius Scribbens http://notyourmothersplayground.com/2009/11/realization-my-own-practical-demons/#comment-717 Lucius Scribbens Sun, 29 Nov 2009 04:13:29 +0000 http://notyourmothersplayground.com/?p=749#comment-717 I've often felt the same. At least I've seen it in my own marriage, where I've felt Lucretia MacEvil will stay-up until 4:00 AM to fuck someone new, but won't stay-up until 11:00 PM to fuck me. This has a lot to do with being married for so many years: the urgency to fuck is gone because you know if you don't tonight, there will always be tomorrow night. Others are only there for tonight, or at least it may be a week or a month before you see them again. The trick though, is to realize this happens to not ignore your primary relationship for this reason. Sure it is real life and things such as a bad day at work, or having a cold, or the kids being sick and thousands of other "real life" events happen, but you have to make time for each other, even if it's just a quickie. It's one of the best ways to stay connected. I’ve often felt the same. At least I’ve seen it in my own marriage, where I’ve felt Lucretia MacEvil will stay-up until 4:00 AM to fuck someone new, but won’t stay-up until 11:00 PM to fuck me. This has a lot to do with being married for so many years: the urgency to fuck is gone because you know if you don’t tonight, there will always be tomorrow night. Others are only there for tonight, or at least it may be a week or a month before you see them again.

The trick though, is to realize this happens to not ignore your primary relationship for this reason. Sure it is real life and things such as a bad day at work, or having a cold, or the kids being sick and thousands of other “real life” events happen, but you have to make time for each other, even if it’s just a quickie. It’s one of the best ways to stay connected.

]]> By: samantha http://notyourmothersplayground.com/2009/11/realization-my-own-practical-demons/#comment-716 samantha Sat, 21 Nov 2009 04:33:05 +0000 http://notyourmothersplayground.com/?p=749#comment-716 Thanks babe :) Thanks babe :)

]]> By: thedirtyblonde http://notyourmothersplayground.com/2009/11/realization-my-own-practical-demons/#comment-715 thedirtyblonde Wed, 18 Nov 2009 22:05:23 +0000 http://notyourmothersplayground.com/?p=749#comment-715 I often think that a new partner is often a reason to try on a new life, new identity, new sexual persona, yet we forget or feel uncomfortable about trying those new things in our own homes. I'm glad you're posting again x. I often think that a new partner is often a reason to try on a new life, new identity, new sexual persona, yet we forget or feel uncomfortable about trying those new things in our own homes.

I’m glad you’re posting again x.

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