Where in the world?

I’ve definitely been MIA lately and wanted to lend some explanations for that. First of all, work was crazy for the past month or two leading up to our big conference (that went well, thank you very much – despite quite a few fires we had to put out.)

This is what I turn into when I'm MIA

So work has occupied my brain space almost completely. Though I wasn’t working crazy hours, I was so mentally worn out that if I spent any time on the computer later it was merely to update my Facebook status or tweet some random frustrated nonsense. There were a few blog posts stored up there but I had lost the ability to let my words just flow without interrupting myself to click on something dumb like Farmville or another Facebook application that would put me to sleep but take up too much time – while not even being FUN! It’s become so easy to just sit there, staring blankly using these “games” as a crutch to fill space but no more of that. I’ve deleted them all!

One of the things I wanted to share with you has to do with an email chain back and forth between Steph and the kids (our exes from last year) but I didn’t want to write anything about it while it was still going on because it wouldn’t be fair to them, us or the situation. That seems to be pretty much wrapped now – I think?? – so it will likely be a post coming soon. In that post I want to address what it’s like to have people come and go in your life when you’re poly be they friends or lovers. When I think about it, there have been quite a few people come and go in my life over the past few years, but it’s rare that I’ve felt unfulfilled.

Also, the other thing occupying what brainspace Farmville hadn’t zapped was the launching of my new website. For those of you who aren’t familiar, I am actively searching for life coaching and relationship coaching clients at www.samanthafraser.com. I haven’t wanted to blog much during the initial set up phase as I really needed to focus on the business and be sure of what I was talking about before talking to you about it randomly. Soon I’ll write some more specific information about the relationship side of my coaching and how I intend to help people achieve harmony in their relationships. (Also some great sales for the holidays and free coaching certificates!)

And finally, life hasn’t really been that exciting lately. 2009, while it’s had some great moments and we’ve solidified some life-long relationships with some very important people including the Drapers and Kitty Knievel & Co. … well, it’s been dumb. It’s been a year to learn about patience, frustration, contemplation and personal growth. It hasn’t been a year for crazy sexual discoveries or painful breakups. It’s been amazing but also highly boring. I haven’t felt very insightful as I haven’t really done anything to cause any insight.

So now I turn it over to you, dear readers. Once I get those other posts up … what do YOU want me to talk about? What have I only briefly touched upon in the past? What issues haven’t I talked about at all?

Let me know. I’m all ears … and once again … fingers.

xo

Oh and P.S. … Lately I’ve been sick which has totally gotten in the way of writing. I think flu, I think sitting at home watching movies, blogging but no. This has been bedridden, dizzy, fever town unfortunately!