Comments on: Year Thirty http://notyourmothersplayground.com/2010/01/year-thirty/ non-monogamy + love + sex + whatever Mon, 21 May 2012 18:11:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Jonathan http://notyourmothersplayground.com/2010/01/year-thirty/#comment-745 Jonathan Sat, 23 Jan 2010 17:02:57 +0000 http://notyourmothersplayground.com/?p=775#comment-745 You found out about your vagina in 2008? You found out about your vagina in 2008?

]]> By: TryLove http://notyourmothersplayground.com/2010/01/year-thirty/#comment-744 TryLove Sat, 09 Jan 2010 18:14:12 +0000 http://notyourmothersplayground.com/?p=775#comment-744 Over the past 3 dfays I have read or re-read all of your entries from the beginning of 2009. Although not 'open,' my husband and I are poly. Our relationship is currently evolving in such a way that may lead to it being open. Thank you for sharing your mind to help us both see (I would send him particularly relevant entries) that it is possible to have strong emotions for more than one person and still have a successful marriage. We are both making incredible efforts to be honest and to listen and learn. I can't thank you enough. When are we doing dinner? :) Over the past 3 dfays I have read or re-read all of your entries from the beginning of 2009.
Although not ‘open,’ my husband and I are poly. Our relationship is currently evolving in such a way that may lead to it being open.
Thank you for sharing your mind to help us both see (I would send him particularly relevant entries) that it is possible to have strong emotions for more than one person and still have a successful marriage.
We are both making incredible efforts to be honest and to listen and learn.
I can’t thank you enough. When are we doing dinner? :)

]]> By: skye Blue http://notyourmothersplayground.com/2010/01/year-thirty/#comment-743 skye Blue Sat, 09 Jan 2010 02:13:47 +0000 http://notyourmothersplayground.com/?p=775#comment-743 I'm fairly new to your blog, and I am looking forward to all the sharing you plan to do in 2010. I’m fairly new to your blog, and I am looking forward to all the sharing you plan to do in 2010.

]]> By: samantha http://notyourmothersplayground.com/2010/01/year-thirty/#comment-742 samantha Thu, 07 Jan 2010 03:43:24 +0000 http://notyourmothersplayground.com/?p=775#comment-742 The same can be said about any life. I don't go into anything with the illusion that it will be the same way forever. I look back on how things were last week, last month, last year and things are always changing. I know this, and love it. It's kind of a given that whatever matters now, won't matter as much one day, if at all. My dad died once. I don't cry about it every single day, but sure it was upsetting then. Life goes on. Shit happens. Gold happens. Life's a journey. I realized that a long time ago. Long before my 14th birthday I'm sure. Thanks for the comment. :) The same can be said about any life. I don’t go into anything with the illusion that it will be the same way forever. I look back on how things were last week, last month, last year and things are always changing. I know this, and love it.

It’s kind of a given that whatever matters now, won’t matter as much one day, if at all.

My dad died once. I don’t cry about it every single day, but sure it was upsetting then. Life goes on. Shit happens. Gold happens. Life’s a journey. I realized that a long time ago. Long before my 14th birthday I’m sure.

Thanks for the comment. :)

]]> By: Jane http://notyourmothersplayground.com/2010/01/year-thirty/#comment-741 Jane Thu, 07 Jan 2010 03:32:39 +0000 http://notyourmothersplayground.com/?p=775#comment-741 Again I have to chuckle that you're 30 (not quite). I admire what you're doing & really admire that you put it out there for the world to see, which is something I'd never do, not wittingly, and that you don't apologize for it. Damn! I admire that. But still I say... Catch up with me in another 10 years or so and I'll buy you a beer or scotch or whatever girlie drink and we'll have a whole different conversation than you're having right now. Frankly, I can't wait to catch up with myself 10 years or so from now. Whatever it is that I'm losing sleep over or obsessing about now will mean nothing to me then. Same for you. Promise. Again I have to chuckle that you’re 30 (not quite). I admire what you’re doing & really admire that you put it out there for the world to see, which is something I’d never do, not wittingly, and that you don’t apologize for it. Damn! I admire that. But still I say… Catch up with me in another 10 years or so and I’ll buy you a beer or scotch or whatever girlie drink and we’ll have a whole different conversation than you’re having right now. Frankly, I can’t wait to catch up with myself 10 years or so from now. Whatever it is that I’m losing sleep over or obsessing about now will mean nothing to me then. Same for you. Promise.

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