Comments on: Threesome tonight? No thanks. Wait, what?? http://notyourmothersplayground.com/2010/02/not-today-darling/ non-monogamy + love + sex + whatever Fri, 10 Feb 2012 19:52:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Skye Blue http://notyourmothersplayground.com/2010/02/not-today-darling/#comment-770 Skye Blue Fri, 05 Feb 2010 13:28:42 +0000 http://notyourmothersplayground.com/?p=842#comment-770 What a great post? I know how hard it is to feel strong emotions when something hurtful happens and then take a step back so you can respond without tearing someone's head off - so kudos to you. Also, the openness and honesty in your relationship is really inspiring. Here's hoping I find someone I can connect with like that some day. What a great post? I know how hard it is to feel strong emotions when something hurtful happens and then take a step back so you can respond without tearing someone’s head off – so kudos to you.

Also, the openness and honesty in your relationship is really inspiring. Here’s hoping I find someone I can connect with like that some day.

]]> By: LetsEatCake http://notyourmothersplayground.com/2010/02/not-today-darling/#comment-769 LetsEatCake Thu, 04 Feb 2010 22:09:02 +0000 http://notyourmothersplayground.com/?p=842#comment-769 Wow. I would have been so fucking pissed. And would reacted so negatively. Probably how you would have reacted in the past? It's my goal to react how you did this time around. I'm not there yet, though in all honesty I *should* be, because I've done this to my partner several times with my boyfriend. I'm all about the double standards, evidently. We're celebrating our 3-year aniiversary this month. Maybe in six more months I'll be there? Thanks for the reminder that it's ok to have trial and error. :) Wow. I would have been so fucking pissed. And would reacted so negatively. Probably how you would have reacted in the past?

It’s my goal to react how you did this time around. I’m not there yet, though in all honesty I *should* be, because I’ve done this to my partner several times with my boyfriend.

I’m all about the double standards, evidently.

We’re celebrating our 3-year aniiversary this month. Maybe in six more months I’ll be there?

Thanks for the reminder that it’s ok to have trial and error.
:)

]]> By: supergirl1964 http://notyourmothersplayground.com/2010/02/not-today-darling/#comment-768 supergirl1964 Thu, 04 Feb 2010 15:20:08 +0000 http://notyourmothersplayground.com/?p=842#comment-768 Cool. I admire that you respect yourself and your partnership -- knowing that it's a two-way street with plenty of compromise & communication detours but when the chips come down you have to stick to your guns. I'm more than a little jealous that you have a partner who seems as willing to honestly hash things out as you are, even if that means you have to stare down some tense & uncomfortable shit along the way. Cool. I admire that you respect yourself and your partnership — knowing that it’s a two-way street with plenty of compromise & communication detours but when the chips come down you have to stick to your guns. I’m more than a little jealous that you have a partner who seems as willing to honestly hash things out as you are, even if that means you have to stare down some tense & uncomfortable shit along the way.

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