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Men Only Cheat When…

Recently I was asked to write a guest blog post for Met Another Frog, about the myths behind men cheating.

Met Another Frog is geared to urban women and offers stories, social commentary and ‘edutainment’ about:

  • dating and relationships
  • love
  • sex
  • achieving personal satisfaction on one’s own terms

My challenge? Explain the myths behind men cheating.

Read on, and let me know what you think.

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Seven swams a swimming

NOTE: This is an absolute too much information post, so please don’t read if you can’t handle it. Really, I think this stuff is like any other fun activities. We talk about our other daily activities, life would be so much better if only sex didn’t have to be an exception.

Despite what people might . . . → Read More: Seven swams a swimming

2008 – Where are you now?

I’m not one for New Years resolutions, but I’m going through some realizations as this Christmas holiday break draws to a close. 2008 has been a big mixed bag of tricks. Not only have there been ups and downs in my *normal* life, but dating has definitely been … different this year.

More for my gratification than yours, I’m afraid, here’s my year in review. I can’t offer any words of advice in it, this is strictly a personal post as I’m terribly interested in what the f*ck happened this year to make me SO excited for it to be over! Here goes nothing … . . . → Read More: 2008 – Where are you now?

Follow up – What IS selfish?

Dictionary.com defines “selfish” as “devoted to or caring only for oneself; concerned primarily with one’s own interests, benefits, welfare, etc., regardless of others.”

What most of really think of when we hear the word is the last three words. Being selfish has gotten a bad rap, but it’s not that surprising. If you’re selfish, it is assumed . . . → Read More: Follow up – What IS selfish?

Forgive me, for I have sinned

Hello lovelies, I think it’s high time I get back to writing to you. Granted, it’s only been a couple of weeks since I’ve made real contact, but the amount of things that have been running through my brain lately have made it feel like forEVER. Work has kept my mind and body busy, and there . . . → Read More: Forgive me, for I have sinned

What Can Make Open Relationships Great? Pt. 2 – Sexy Friend Time

This one’s pretty easy. An open relationship can, depending upon each couple’s specific arrangements, allow you to get to know your friends in ways you’ve never thought possible. Or perhaps you’ve just not vocalized yet.

Go on, admit it. You know, or have known in the past, a friend that you’ve felt something more for. . . . → Read More: What Can Make Open Relationships Great? Pt. 2 – Sexy Friend Time

Read my interview in the National Post!

© National Post, 2008

While I haven’t had much time to write lately, I did have some time to be interviewed.

Read my interview, and accompanying story in this Saturday’s Weekend Post, by Zosia Bielski.

Click here for the article.

A few items as follow up:

Steph’s not a Fraser, as much as I tried to convince him that my . . . → Read More: Read my interview in the National Post!

The Big Three

Whenever someone finds out I am in an open marriage, they invariably ask me three questions.

What about jealousy?
Why bother getting married?
Isn’t that cheating?

It’s almost become a rehearsed speech that I give when I answer these questions, so I will share this speech with you. There will be more elaboration on all of these questions in the . . . → Read More: The Big Three