Passing the Kinky Baton: Meet Alex

Ok. So maybe I was a little bit dramatic before. When I wrote about things ending with James/Daddy, I was sad. I was across the ocean, stuck in gloomy weather, and starting to notice that our flirty messages that I was so excited for weren’t so flirty anymore. For such an intense start, things fizzled . . . → Read More: Passing the Kinky Baton: Meet Alex

Confession: I’m a Secret Lover

You know that feeling you get when you haven’t had something that you want, something that you need, in a really, really long time, and suddenly it’s in front of you, so close that you can taste it and smell it. So close that every fibre of your being is consumed with that overwhelming need . . . → Read More: Confession: I’m a Secret Lover

Three’s Company; part 2

This is Part Two to this story. If you haven’t read that one, this likely will not make much sense. So please read it first!

When the doorbell rang, I could feel myself getting anxious. I was about to let somebody else into this very personal space that has belonged to Harvey and I for . . . → Read More: Three’s Company; part 2

Men Only Cheat When…

Recently I was asked to write a guest blog post for Met Another Frog, about the myths behind men cheating.

Met Another Frog is geared to urban women and offers stories, social commentary and ‘edutainment’ about:

dating and relationships love sex achieving personal satisfaction on one’s own terms

My challenge? Explain the myths behind men . . . → Read More: Men Only Cheat When…

Seven swams a swimming

NOTE: This is an absolute too much information post, so please don’t read if you can’t handle it. Really, I think this stuff is like any other fun activities. We talk about our other daily activities, life would be so much better if only sex didn’t have to be an exception.

Despite what . . . → Read More: Seven swams a swimming

2008 – Where are you now?

I’m not one for New Years resolutions, but I’m going through some realizations as this Christmas holiday break draws to a close. 2008 has been a big mixed bag of tricks. Not only have there been ups and downs in my *normal* life, but dating has definitely been … different this year. More for my gratification than yours, I’m afraid, here’s my year in review. I can’t offer any words of advice in it, this is strictly a personal post as I’m terribly interested in what the f*ck happened this year to make me SO excited for it to be over! Here goes nothing … . . . → Read More: 2008 – Where are you now?

Follow up – What IS selfish? defines “selfish” as “devoted to or caring only for oneself; concerned primarily with one’s own interests, benefits, welfare, etc., regardless of others.”

What most of really think of when we hear the word is the last three words. Being selfish has gotten a bad rap, but it’s not that surprising. If you’re selfish, it . . . → Read More: Follow up – What IS selfish?

Forgive me, for I have sinned

Hello lovelies, I think it’s high time I get back to writing to you. Granted, it’s only been a couple of weeks since I’ve made real contact, but the amount of things that have been running through my brain lately have made it feel like forEVER. Work has kept my mind and body busy, and . . . → Read More: Forgive me, for I have sinned

What Can Make Open Relationships Great? Pt. 2 – Sexy Friend Time

This one’s pretty easy. An open relationship can, depending upon each couple’s specific arrangements, allow you to get to know your friends in ways you’ve never thought possible. Or perhaps you’ve just not vocalized yet. 😉

Go on, admit it. You know, or have known in the past, a friend that you’ve felt something more . . . → Read More: What Can Make Open Relationships Great? Pt. 2 – Sexy Friend Time

Read my interview in the National Post!

© National Post, 2008

While I haven’t had much time to write lately, I did have some time to be interviewed.

Read my interview, and accompanying story in this Saturday’s Weekend Post, by Zosia Bielski.

Click here for the article.

A few items as follow up:

Steph’s not a Fraser, as much as I . . . → Read More: Read my interview in the National Post!