I have a personal rule that I try to follow as much as possible. I don’t like to blog when I’m angry or emotional. I know I’ve done it in the past, but I highly prefer not because then I hit you folks with emotional diarrhea and I embarrass myself on the off chance that I . . . → Read More: Realizations – I just wanna' have fun
     
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I know that post about Kitty was all sunshine and roses but this one’s going to be a reminder that every rose has its thorn. Even though Steph and I have been doing this open marriage shtick for over 3 years now, we still have things to learn, like the following story will share. While I was . . . → Read More: Every Cowboy Sings a Sad Sad Song (Or lessons learned from group sex, while out of the room. And town) This past weekend Steph and I both went out on the town. He, with a good friend of ours and me on a girls night. Being the dolt I am, I forgot to bring my mobile with me so at the end of the night when my feet gave out from hours of dancing, my friend . . . → Read More: Serves Me Right Over the past few years as Steph and I have gone through different dating situations, we have always discussed the pipe dream of living with those we’re fucking. Triad relationships, two couples living in the same house; these are all things that sound good in theory, and hey, who knows what the future will hold for . . . → Read More: Under One Roof I’ll admit it. Even though I’ve been in an open marriage with Steph since August of 2006, I can be a bit of a polyamory newb sometimes. It was only this past winter when having dinner with S (guy I dated last summer / fall) that he mentioned the term compersion to me, assuming that I . . . → Read More: Comper … what? After almost exactly three months, S and I had dinner last night. It was our first time seeing each other since the breakup in November. Gosh, it feels like such a long time ago, and yet also not at all. For me, a lot has happened in the past three months. Work has gotten really, really . . . → Read More: It's a reunion … of sorts! … I’m in Romantic Love which occasionally borders on Infatuation, sometimes stepping over into Consumate Love with you.” Not so much what Stevie Wonder had in mind when he wrote the song. I’ve recently discovered this theory through a friend, and it came at perfect timing as I wanted to write about emotions anyway. Most of us . . . → Read More: “I Just Called To Say … As if opening up your relationship isn’t sometimes intimidating enough, imagine how it feels when one partner decides to pursue outside BDSM relationships. Without proper communication to discuss the ramifications of this, things can get sticky, so I offer you some thoughts / experience / advice to take with you. To start with, don’t judge – try . . . → Read More: BD what? … Part 2 I’m not one for New Years resolutions, but I’m going through some realizations as this Christmas holiday break draws to a close. 2008 has been a big mixed bag of tricks. Not only have there been ups and downs in my *normal* life, but dating has definitely been … different this year. More for my gratification than yours, I’m afraid, here’s my year in review. I can’t offer any words of advice in it, this is strictly a personal post as I’m terribly interested in what the f*ck happened this year to make me SO excited for it to be over! Here goes nothing … . . . → Read More: 2008 – Where are you now? This one’s pretty easy. An open relationship can, depending upon each couple’s specific arrangements, allow you to get to know your friends in ways you’ve never thought possible. Or perhaps you’ve just not vocalized yet. Go on, admit it. You know, or have known in the past, a friend that you’ve felt something more for. . . . → Read More: What Can Make Open Relationships Great? Pt. 2 – Sexy Friend Time |
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