What What, In Your Butt!

Posted on March 11, 2010 by samantha

Hey work colleagues and family! This post is probably TMI for you. Don’t say I didn’t warn you!
Recently I went to local sex store, Come As You Are for the Advanced Anal Pleasure workshop with Tristan Taormino, sex educator, adult filmmaker and bestselling author of The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women.

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Ready For Our Close-Ups: Modern Marriage and Us

Posted on February 22, 2010 by samantha

Yesterday, months earlier than we were expecting, Steph and I were interviewed for the documentary we were asked to be in on modern marriage, that will air on CBC’s Doc Zone hopefully sometime early next year.

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Sometimes People Need Pwning

Posted on September 15, 2009 by samantha

Recently I was visiting Sexie Sadie’s blog, one of my faves as she writes about her open marriage with an honesty that I admire completely, and I came across this post about her 13th wedding anniversary and coming clean with some issues in her life.
Reading the comments to scroll down and eventually write one of [...]

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Fake Prom, Real World

Posted on September 5, 2009 by samantha

Last Friday Steph, @ccath, @bondean and I headed down to the Palais Royale on Lakeshore West for Fake Prom 2009. The “theme” was Film Noir, and while many people kinda’ butchered it according to the purists it was definitely enjoyable after a long week of work to get dolled up, look around a fancy room [...]

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How could I forget!?

Posted on August 26, 2009 by samantha

Today is our third year Openniversary. Here’s my post from last year: http://notyourmothersplayground.com/2008/08/26/openniversary

Three years later and what a ride it’s been. We’ve gone through so many changes in such a short time; being open has really helped us become the people we are today.
So what have the past three years brought to our table?

Threesomes with [...]

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According to virgins …

Posted on July 29, 2009 by samantha

Driving along today downtown I saw a Virgin Mobile billboard that simply said;
We’re into open relationships.
It was an ad for their ‘no contract’ agreement. I would have taken a phone pic of it but I had to pay attention to the road after all.
Whatever it was for, it certainly made me think. I’m starting to [...]

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Only you. And you. And you.

Posted on July 29, 2009 by samantha

Polyamory—relationships with multiple, mutually consenting partners—has a coming-out party.
Terisa Greenan and her boyfriend, Matt, are enjoying a rare day of Seattle sun, sharing a beet carpaccio on the patio of a local restaurant. Matt holds Terisa’s hand, as his 6-year-old son squeezes in between the couple to give Terisa a kiss. His mother, Vera, looks [...]

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And the lady will have …

Posted on July 21, 2009 by samantha

The jury is still out on chivalry and its relation to equality, and I think always will be. The politically correct ninjas of the 90’s would like everyone to believe that men and women are equal, but I think somewhere along the line the message got a little skewed. Just like in that little book, [...]

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Ooh! A piece of candy!

Posted on June 3, 2009 by samantha

I’ve accepted over the years that there are some people who will see me, and others in open relationships as a sort of ‘novelty’. I’ve slept with enough men – and women – who have gotten off on the idea that I’m married that the novelty of that novelty has somewhat worn off for me.
Being [...]

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My interview with Miss Polyamory

Posted on May 17, 2009 by samantha

I had a great interview tonight with Miss Polyamory of www.misspolyamory.com. Thanks to Twitter for bringing us together and to the Miss herself for being so great during our chat!
I promise everyone that I will be updating my blog with more posts over the next week. I know I’ve been a bit lacking lately, but [...]

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