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It’s true. Relationships ARE hard … um, yo. It doesn’t matter if you’re dating or married or long-distance, dealing with another person (or people) while trying to live one life together with different personalities can be really, really challenging. Whether you love/fuck other people or remain monogamous, the grass can often appear so much greener on any other side compared to the one you’re on. But is it really?
Recently I was asked to write a guest blog post for Met Another Frog, about the myths behind men cheating. Met Another Frog is geared to urban women and offers stories, social commentary and ‘edutainment’ about:
My challenge? Explain the myths behind men cheating. Read on, and let me know what you think. I have a personal rule that I try to follow as much as possible. I don’t like to blog when I’m angry or emotional. I know I’ve done it in the past, but I highly prefer not because then I hit you folks with emotional diarrhea and I embarrass myself on the off chance that I . . . → Read More: Realizations – I just wanna' have fun I’m working on changing this site a teensy bit. While during my first 3 years of non-monogamy I was discovering and learning new lessons very often, that phase has slowed down a bit and now we are just living our lives. So in order to be able to share thoughts on things that aren’t always related to . . . → Read More: Working on a change It’s my five year wedding anniversary today. Normally Steph and I don’t really bother with our wedding anniversary but this year is different. We’ve realized that there’s a lot of really great people in our lives – some who have been in our bed, and some who haven’t – that we didn’t know at the time . . . → Read More: Five years and counting As the God fearing character “Manny” returns to tell us we’re all doing bad things on Sexie Sadie’s blog, I couldn’t help but comment back at him and since I wrote so much I wanted to share with all of you! Here’s his latest comment, and you can read mine below. Fun with God and open relationships! Manny . . . → Read More: Pwning, Part II Driving along today downtown I saw a Virgin Mobile billboard that simply said; We’re into open relationships. It was an ad for their ‘no contract’ agreement. I would have taken a phone pic of it but I had to pay attention to the road after all. Whatever it was for, it certainly made me think. I’m starting to notice . . . → Read More: According to virgins … Over the past few years as Steph and I have gone through different dating situations, we have always discussed the pipe dream of living with those we’re fucking. Triad relationships, two couples living in the same house; these are all things that sound good in theory, and hey, who knows what the future will hold for . . . → Read More: Under One Roof It’s a hazard of this open marriage lifestyle, but living in the seemingly big, but actually relatively small city of Toronto and having dated quite a number of boys and girls over the past few years I am bound to run into someone sooner or later. I’ve had some random run-ins over the past few years. Luckily, . . . → Read More: The Run-In I’ve accepted over the years that there are some people who will see me, and others in open relationships as a sort of ‘novelty’. I’ve slept with enough men – and women – who have gotten off on the idea that I’m married that the novelty of that novelty has somewhat worn off for me. Being polyamorous . . . → Read More: Ooh! A piece of candy! |
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