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Five years and counting

It’s my five year wedding anniversary today. Normally Steph and I don’t really bother with our wedding anniversary but this year is different. We’ve realized that there’s a lot of really great people in our lives – some who have been in our bed, and some who haven’t – that we didn’t know at the time . . . → Read More: Five years and counting

Pwning, Part II

As the God fearing character “Manny” returns to tell us we’re all doing bad things on Sexie Sadie’s blog, I couldn’t help but comment back at him and since I wrote so much I wanted to share with all of you!

Here’s his latest comment, and you can read mine below. Fun with God and open relationships!

Manny . . . → Read More: Pwning, Part II

According to virgins …

Driving along today downtown I saw a Virgin Mobile billboard that simply said;

We’re into open relationships.

It was an ad for their ‘no contract’ agreement. I would have taken a phone pic of it but I had to pay attention to the road after all.

Whatever it was for, it certainly made me think. I’m starting to notice . . . → Read More: According to virgins …

Under One Roof

Over the past few years as Steph and I have gone through different dating situations, we have always discussed the pipe dream of living with those we’re fucking. Triad relationships, two couples living in the same house; these are all things that sound good in theory, and hey, who knows what the future will hold for . . . → Read More: Under One Roof

The Run-In

It’s a hazard of this open marriage lifestyle, but living in the seemingly big, but actually relatively small city of Toronto and having dated quite a number of boys and girls over the past few years I am bound to run into someone sooner or later.

I’ve had some random run-ins over the past few years. Luckily, . . . → Read More: The Run-In

Ooh! A piece of candy!

I’ve accepted over the years that there are some people who will see me, and others in open relationships as a sort of ‘novelty’. I’ve slept with enough men – and women – who have gotten off on the idea that I’m married that the novelty of that novelty has somewhat worn off for me.

Being polyamorous . . . → Read More: Ooh! A piece of candy!

My interview with Miss Polyamory

I had a great interview tonight with Miss Polyamory of www.misspolyamory.com. Thanks to Twitter for bringing us together and to the Miss herself for being so great during our chat!

I promise everyone that I will be updating my blog with more posts over the next week. I know I’ve been a bit lacking lately, but I’m . . . → Read More: My interview with Miss Polyamory

Comper … what?

I’ll admit it. Even though I’ve been in an open marriage with Steph since August of 2006, I can be a bit of a polyamory newb sometimes. It was only this past winter when having dinner with S (guy I dated last summer / fall) that he mentioned the term compersion to me, assuming that I . . . → Read More: Comper … what?

Single vs. Single(ish)

Here’s a fact I’ve realized lately: I’ve dated / slept with way more people since being married than I ever did when I was actually single. Looking back on my real single life is a strange exercise. Steph and I have been together since I was just about 21 so my single days are far behind . . . → Read More: Single vs. Single(ish)

What's New?

Today I updated my Facebook status to tell people how much I can’t stand the above question. I tend to get frustrated with questions that cause me to think too much, but I thought I’d be rational and answer it for all of you.

This post has no advice or funny quotes, it’s just what it asks. . . . → Read More: What's New?