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Do YOU want to move the couch?

Steph just looked at me and asked “Do you think we should move the couch over? It’s covering up the vent.”

I replied: “Nah, I think it’s ok?”

He replied, in a snarky, condescending voice: “Well that’s the only vent on this floor so keeping it covered doesn’t make any sense. Right?”

To which I then replied … suddenly . . . → Read More: Do YOU want to move the couch?

Apple C, Apple P

This might make me an asshole … but I don’t care.

When I get a message like this, it makes me angry but in an amused way. It’s clearly coming from a man who doesn’t get it. He hasn’t read my profile, he’s not interested in knowing anything about me. He is a serial copy paster. He’s . . . → Read More: Apple C, Apple P

Realizations – I just wanna' have fun

I have a personal rule that I try to follow as much as possible. I don’t like to blog when I’m angry or emotional. I know I’ve done it in the past, but I highly prefer not because then I hit you folks with emotional diarrhea and I embarrass myself on the off chance that I . . . → Read More: Realizations – I just wanna' have fun

Pwning, Part II

As the God fearing character “Manny” returns to tell us we’re all doing bad things on Sexie Sadie’s blog, I couldn’t help but comment back at him and since I wrote so much I wanted to share with all of you!

Here’s his latest comment, and you can read mine below. Fun with God and open relationships!

Manny . . . → Read More: Pwning, Part II

Sometimes People Need Pwning

Recently I was visiting Sexie Sadie’s blog, one of my faves as she writes about her open marriage with an honesty that I admire completely, and I came across this post about her 13th wedding anniversary and coming clean with some issues in her life.

Reading the comments to scroll down and eventually write one of my . . . → Read More: Sometimes People Need Pwning

Online dating, fail

My coworker, who yes is East Indian, just got this email from this guy on Lava Life. For the record, she is mainly on Lava because it’s amusing. It is fun for us all to read the emails that these people send to her because so many of them are reeeeediculous. What is it about the . . . → Read More: Online dating, fail

Realizations: I Am My Own Worst Enemy

No, I’m not talking about the Christian Slater cancelled NBC drama that I and perhaps only two other people really enjoyed (don’t judge me!). I’m referring to how sometimes being eclectic can get the best of me leaving me feeling lazy, indecisive and annoyed with myself.

I don’t relax well. That’s not to say that I can’t . . . → Read More: Realizations: I Am My Own Worst Enemy

The Run-In

It’s a hazard of this open marriage lifestyle, but living in the seemingly big, but actually relatively small city of Toronto and having dated quite a number of boys and girls over the past few years I am bound to run into someone sooner or later.

I’ve had some random run-ins over the past few years. Luckily, . . . → Read More: The Run-In

Anonymity be damned

There are many times when I wish I could write a lot more freely than I do; telling you specifics about people I fuck, people I love or people I want to love and fuck. I don’t want to embarrass myself when they read what I think about them, our dates, or their touch and I . . . → Read More: Anonymity be damned

RANT – I Kissed a Girl, & Yes. Yes, I LOVED It.

I’ve decided that I can’t stand Katy Perry, despite her cute and sassy vintage style.  The idea that she is “edgy” or “naughty” just makes me cranky, and saddened with society. Driving home last night, one of her stupid songs was on the radio and I found myself getting enraged.

Perhaps I should be directing this . . . → Read More: RANT – I Kissed a Girl, & Yes. Yes, I LOVED It.