Review: Lelo Gigi 2

It’s a hard life, but someone’s got to review all these sex toys that Lelo keeps sending me. This time, I had the choice between the Liv 2 and the Gigi 2 and since I already have the first Liv, I thought I’d switch it up and go for the Gigi. Also, it comes in this . . . → Read More: Review: Lelo Gigi 2

Back On That Horse

It’s been a while, Internet. I remember the days when I used to talk to you all the time in this medium. This site is the reason that I became anything online (though somedays I wonder if it’s because I talk about masturbation on Twitter). People would find it when searching for info on open . . . → Read More: Back On That Horse

Shame! I want it gone forever!

I’ve been doing a lot of thinking lately about two things, shame and confidence. How they affect us, shape who we are, and direct our actions. How some people are crippled by shame or a lack of confidence, while others soar either because of or in spite of them.

I’ve always had a lot of . . . → Read More: Shame! I want it gone forever!

2013: Life By Design

I was a bit of an idiot in 2012. I pulled that typical end of year shit where I told myself “Don’t worry, Self, 2012 will be awesome and everything will be shiny and new. Everything that was bad will magically become great and you won’t have to do any work because that’s just how . . . → Read More: 2013: Life By Design

I Can See Clearly Now

I knew that I was going to really need our recent Mexico vacation. I had been working around the clock every day, every weekend, almost every minute, for months and I was existing in a temporary depression. What I didn’t realize however, was just exactly how transformative the time away would be for me.

It’s . . . → Read More: I Can See Clearly Now


I hope this post isn’t as confusing for you to read as it was for me to write.

Last night before bed, Brad and I were texting each other. I guess I need to give you the update on he and I, don’t I. I’ll share more soon.

Anyway. So as we’re chatting, he says . . . → Read More: BUT AM I PRETTY???

On Emotional Masochism

I feel like such a lunatic for typing it out but I am pretty convinced that I get some sort of strange pleasure out of feeling small. And by small I don’t mean physically, though I wouldn’t mind losing this tummy and (some of) this ass. I’m talking more along the lines of not as . . . → Read More: On Emotional Masochism

So … there’s this girl

Continuing the theme of sharing with you stories of the people in my life, here is Bella. She’s been in my life for many months, but as I’ve mentioned before, I’ve wanted to keep everything very close to my chest for a while. I finally feel ready to share, and it feels wonderful.

Last November . . . → Read More: So … there’s this girl

So … I’m going to SlutWalk

I’m not very good at activism. At least I don’t think I am. I don’t rally. I don’t march. I don’t make signs and I don’t write letters to local politicians. I’m a bit fail on that front, really. If there IS anything that I do, it’s more on a one on one basis. I . . . → Read More: So … I’m going to SlutWalk

It Felt Like a Kiss: What Submission Means to Me

I’ve realized something about myself lately – and it’s not that I don’t mind the taste of seaweed as much as I once thought – though this is also true. It’s that my submissive side is so much more than an occasional stress reliever or playtime. It’s become what I need and what I crave . . . → Read More: It Felt Like a Kiss: What Submission Means to Me