It was probably in the late summer or fall that I first heard of #CrushTO events being produced by the girls at the sex-positive group, I’d Tap That. Up to my eyeballs in planning for both my work festival and Playground sexuality conference, it was only something that my brain could give a passing glance . . . → Read More: I’ve got a Crush, TO
January’s here and it’s time for my life to take a very different path. Not one of resolutions, but of resolve. Now is the time when I am going to finally finish my book. I’ve been writing this thing since 2008 and I am anxious now to bring it into the world.
Don’t now what . . . → Read More: It’s a New Dawn. It’s a New Day.
I’ve been doing a lot of thinking lately about two things, shame and confidence. How they affect us, shape who we are, and direct our actions. How some people are crippled by shame or a lack of confidence, while others soar either because of or in spite of them.
I’ve always had a lot of . . . → Read More: Shame! I want it gone forever!
I knew that I was going to really need our recent Mexico vacation. I had been working around the clock every day, every weekend, almost every minute, for months and I was existing in a temporary depression. What I didn’t realize however, was just exactly how transformative the time away would be for me.
It’s . . . → Read More: I Can See Clearly Now
(Printed with permission from the subject.)
This is a real thing. As much as it’s a perfect cliché soap opera line, it really is a thing, and it sucks.
It’s been 5 and something months now and James and I still haven’t had sex. I know my last post about him suggested that after a . . . → Read More: It’s Not You, It’s Totally Me
There’s something so surreal about begging your friends, family and internet strangers for money, almost every day. Emails come in … this person has given you $10. This person $100. This next $25. In between, so many wonderful, supportive comments, tweets, retweets, emails and Facebook shares.
(For those out of the loop, I am referring . . . → Read More: Thank you for a successful campaign!!
Lelo Tiani 2 Score: 8.5 sexy french maids out of a harem of 10
It’s depressing to admit that the fine folks at Lelo sent me over the beautiful Tiani 2 remote controlled couples massager a couple of months ago and I’m only JUST getting around to writing the review now … but it’s true.
. . . → Read More: Review: Lelo Tiani 2
When I tell most people about my relationship with James, they’re confused. How is it possible that I’ve been dating someone for almost four months and I’ve only seen him naked – or almost naked – once? (twice now, since last night!)
It’s not my normal M.O. to wait this long. Not that I jump . . . → Read More: The Massive James Update or “Cockward” for Short
I’ve always enjoyed the Toronto Pride parade for its fanfare, over the top hotness, activism and messages. Every year that I’ve gone has been a blast, filled with stop ins at hotel washrooms and bars (no line ups!), impromptu spin the bottle at Church and Wellesley, and more ogling of the human body than my . . . → Read More: I’m Marching in the Parade!