There are countless resources out there for non-monogamous people to learn more about lifestyle options, find community, and connect with potential new lovers. As more are being added all the time, I’m going to list my top faves and their websites to give you a good place to start.


 American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT)

American Psychological Association

Canadian Polyamory Advocacy Association

Heterosexuals for Same-Sex Equality

Loving More

Modern Poly

National Coalition for Sexual Freedom

Polyamory Toronto

The Kinsey Institute

Selected North American Events

 Atlanta Polyamory Weekend: Atlanta, GA

Catalyst Con East: Washington, DC; West: Woodland Hills, CA

Dark Odyssey: Various locations

Feminist Porn Awards: Toronto, ON

FetFest: Various locations

Guelph Sexuality Conference: Guelph, ON

Playground Sexuality Conference: Toronto, ON

PolyCon: Vancouver, BC

Shibaricon: Chicago, IL

Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit: Washington, DC



Kimchi Cuddles (Poly Cartoons)

Kink Academy

Life on the Swingset

Polyamory in the Media

Polamory Weekly

Practical Polyamory

Make Some Friends

 Adult Friend Finder

Collar Me


Meetup – search for poly groups in your area


Poly Matchmaker