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Social Media, Anonymity & My Identity. Pt. 2

[Read Part One, here]

The other night when Steph and I got to the park, I pulled out my phone and checked in via Facebook Places and Foursquare.

“Who do you check in for?” he asked.

Sheepishly, I replied … “Um, me I guess? I like having a record.”

To tell the truth, I’m not 100% sure what drives the need to stay connected through social media and tell the world what I’m doing instead of remaining anonymous which is the much easier choice. I’m guilty of many of the crimes that sites like The Oatmeal would say is social / information faux pas and then I make fun of others for doing them as well.

It’s just what you do, I tell myself.

But is it? Why do I feel this incessant need to tweet all the time or share my life via my blog? Why the push to be more honest than sometimes necessary, to expose myself and my wounds?

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Don't Worry, It's The Best Time Of Your Life

So often this is the response that I get when I tell people I’m turning thirty on March 22nd. I get excited every year about my birthday; not because I think I’m the only person in the world born on that day – the laws of simple common sense are against me on that one – but because I personally think it’s important to celebrate ourselves; take a moment (or a week) and do something just for us, surrounded by those we love. And um, parties are fun.

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We walk among you

It used to be that thoughts of people in open relationships brought specific visions to mind. Hippie communes, copious amounts of drugs and rock’n’roll on the free love side and purple satin sheets, leopard print anything and hedonistic Mexican resorts on the swinging side. All of those things still exist and please many people, but there . . . → Read More: We walk among you